" 17. Responsible men can become more deeply convinced of the truth of the doctrine laid down by the Church on this issue if they reflect on the consequences of methods and plans for artificial birth control. Let them first consider how easily this course of action could open wide the way for marital infidelity and a general lowering of moral standards. Not much experience is needed to be fully aware of human weakness and to understand that human beings—and especially the young, who are so exposed to temptation—need incentives to keep the moral law, and it is an evil thing to make it easy for them to break that law. Another effect that gives cause for alarm is that a man who grows accustomed to the use of contraceptive methods may forget the reverence due to a woman, and, disregarding her physical and emotional equilibrium, reduce her to being a mere instrument for the satisfaction of his own desires, no longer considering her as his partner whom he should surround with care and affection."
From this I will be looking at what we talked about in class, that taking birth control pills can change how we view sex and how that changes our morals. I believe that contraceptives have changed both gender's views on sex. My opinion on sex is that it is just sex. I do not believe that it holds more meaning than a means to derive pleasure from. I still believe though that sex without the use of contraceptives is only for those in a relationship looking to have children.
In this short passage above the pope says that contraceptives have lowered moral standards and basically states that we don't take sex as seriously as we used to. And I agree however, I am okay with that, I don't think it should be as secretive and hidden as it is/was. One thing I disagree on is the statement made above on how men forget "... reverence due to a woman, and , disregarding her physical and emotional equilibrium, reduce her to being a mere instrument for the satisfaction of his own desires..." I think that this depends on the culture that you are in. In our culture we are focused on equality and I think that condoms and the pill give women a choice in sex and makes it more equal. There are plenty of women out there that are looking for a sexual release, like when I was at Phi Psi this weekend I saw plenty of women out looking for sexual releases, as well as men. So the pope's one sided argument I think that it is wrong, looking at what we said in class, someone said something about "sluts" taking contraceptives, my argument to that is that there is no such thing as a true "slut". My friend the other day had this great quote "slut= a woman with the morals of a man"
I guess the biggest problem I always had with the issue of sex that the church brings up is the ridiculous rules against something that is completely natural. We have urges to want to have sex, and in reality if we dont there might be a problem with that person (mental or physical), so why fight it? Why not find a way for people to act out on these urges without having the consequences of bearing a child or contracting a disease.
ReplyDeleteI actually just read this title to my roommate, and he said that it seemed sexist to him. I, at first, agreed but after reading it I agree with what you explained. Sex is no longer as sacred as it used to be for most people. Both men and women think of sex as a form of pleasure and not as a way to procreate. When they want to procreate, they try. When they want to just enjoy pleasure, they use the pill or other protection.
ReplyDeleteYeah I am sorry If I offended anyone with the title but I do not think that sleeping with people makes me a "slut" with a negative connotation, and neither do my male friends. But this is because I am a guy, and I do not think that when women sleep with people and like sex that doesn't make them a slut, or amoral it makes them a new socially constructed cultural body. Without change we never advance, and so the world is changing and I think that is important. Sex is fun, so why do we get on only women and not men for having it?
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